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Question:

Joe asks "why"? Why you aren’t married, Joe? Because all you see is sex. Why people GET married, Joe? Because (each for individual reasons) they value one person SO MUCH, that they want to spend the rest of their lives with that person — even if it does tend to limit the screwing around they do with new people all the time. Values. Morality. Shared goals. Raising children. Religion. Like I said, each person has reasons of their own. (And sometimes they are bad ones and the marriage fails — but that doesn’t mean the concept is bad.) But I can say one thing Joe — any woman stupid enough to fall for someone with your attitude needs therapy — so I suspect you will STAY single. (I wonder if there is a connection between this attitude and the desire to be a marine — seems to be common among the ex marnes I have met.) Sherry

Response:

Why do people think that they are ready to get married. I am 38, never married. I do not really understand. I do understand some of it I have to settle for the life I have always lived with women. I love them. I would never pay for sex.When I am with her ( no matter who) in public other wemen always flirt with me. I have been faithfull for 6 years to my present  girlfriend. My last girlfriend somehow forced me to go after others. Her PMS was so bad I would have to get away. Our sex was so strong I would have to have it evern if not from her. It was easy because when she would be so depressed on her period she did not have the mental  capacity to know what I was up to for 6 years. I guess am a product of seeing so many magazines all my life. When I was 4 my mother showed me a picture of Sophia Loren on the cover of McCalls in a white wedding dress. After that it was playboy in second grade i could not believe my eyes. I was in heaven ! I was also exposed to the very mature side of nudity through ART. I could paint and draw well for my age and took private lessons. The teacher painted nudes and  had all kinds of nudes in books.                         So when your young and get with a [naked lady ] for the first time you have a quest to repeat this and explore this beauty over and and over . Theres also all the other pleasures and feelings . I can remember a sense of fear or rush feel ing that comes over me for a second just after a girl gives the green light. It is a very strong feeling. It only lasts for a second. It only happens when you are about to embark on a new  beauty. It will not happen in the master bedroom with your wife. I will not happen with your now sexually defunct husband.          You see for some;  marriage kills romance. The security of some relationships makes us slack off in other areas as we are constantly getting older.                                     You will never be able to fully under the opposite sex. sure men should be more open ,caring, sensitive, and loving. What we as men learn from women we can use to gain acess to other women. Your husband should stay just like he is a man he should not understand more than he needs to. I can only do the male bonding thing fo so long. I am an ex-marine. I like to drink and check out to see the ladies at the bar. Some men do not even notice them and they do not respect them or pay any attention.To them they are things. They can not relate to them as something more than an object. When ever I am around these type of men I have to be careful not to spend too much time with them or I’ll never score. One of the problems is men look at porn too much and not enough to ladies with their clothes on. If they did the would be better off having some fashion sense. Alot of the problem is our somewhat provincial, victorian background to or culture here in America.                                                 The whole wedding scene is such a farce. Diamonds are so common in the future they will be worthless.                 I would be great if I could find someone so beautiful, so wonderful that I would wait until that special day to consumate our marriage on our wedding night, in the honeymoon suite. A friend of mine came close to that on his second marriage except they had been boning it for 3 years.   I hope I have started or raised a little dust with both sexes. I know your families have put presure on some of you to settle down have children etc. Just help me to understand. Tel l me why. I am the only one in a large family who is straight and single.                 I really like childern too.

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